I'm curious to hear if i am the only one who has, toyed with older men, almost in sport. The last of which a friend and I seduced and he happened to be 28 (I'm 17), needless to say upon hearing this, we left the matter alone...Anyone else seem to attract/find older men?
I used to be really attracted to older men and still kind of am. there does seem to be something really sophisticaed about them. For instance I am nuts over Sam Waterson from Law and Order and I think he is 66 years old. But since I have gotten older, it seems that only younger men are finding me attractive. Perhpas it is the fascination with the whole MILF culture. Or in your case FILF!
But be careful, the male ego is very fragile thing. Even at that age.
I would have no problem dating someone who was 10 years older than me, or even 15 years older than me, but I'm 40 years old. If I were say 22 years old, dating someone that much older than me would seem a little odd. I mean, I think at 22 I still had a lot of growing up to do. Who I am now is very much different from who I am now. But for some it works. I think Calista Flockhart was in her early thirties when she started dating Harrison Ford who was in his 60's and they are still together. I say each to it's own.
Permalink Reply by jen on August 29, 2007 at 1:34am
Im a 23 year old woman, and almost all of my lovers have been5 + years older than me, older men just know their way around a women alot better than little boys just hoping to get their rocks off.
Im 18 this year and lately I have been going absolutely crazy for certain older men. one of my professors is well in his 40s and is the most attractive man I have ever seen. Seriously looking at him is such a turn on. I find myself staring at him non-stop in class, waiting for the reward of eye contact with him for an occasional 2 seconds. Its crazy how much he makes me melt considering I usually fall into the trap of cold man-hater. Its the fantasy of being with someone older and experienced who know exactly how to please me as opposed to the little shits I dated throughout high school.
Well I'm 29 and have always been a little embarressed about my ummmm fetish. I'm currently dating a 57yr old. It can be hard, oldermen are not neccessarily more mature. I've dated more than a few that want a bit of blonde fluff on their arm.